Why Can’t The Men Who Don’t Love Us Just Leave Us Alone?

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There’s a viral TikTok that says men don’t like women, they just like sleeping with women to get validation from other men.

This is one of those weird ideas that immediately feels true, not necessarily because this is what actually happens, but because it reveals the need for something to explain why straight women have to deal with the worst of both worlds from men who will both act like they don’t respect or like women but also won’t just leave them alone. The idea that there’s a reason men talk to us other than actually liking us rings true. It could be this theory of needing male validation or it could be something else. What the actual reasoning is isn’t really relevant.

Last year I discovered a guy I’d met on Bumble earlier that year had a long term girlfriend with children. I deliberated a lot and eventually sent her a message…

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